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Dustin J. Seibert  |  Hump Day

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Dustin J. Seibert is a native Detroiter whose journalism career brought him to Rockford in 2004. The University of Michigan graduate moved to the city in 2006 with the intention of reporting and putting into print the city’s bourgeoning hip-hop scene.

He says his dating life has been so interesting and tumultuous that he will write a book about it someday, but for now he plans to share his experiences with the faithful readers. The Hump Day column is his personal experiences with sex, love and affairs of the heart blended with the experiences of others.

You can catch Dustin dodging traffic on his Huffy, catching small-venue hip-hop shows, scarfing down California rolls and Newcastle Brown Ale or scaring people on the street when getting in pointless shouting matches with his “road-dog” Vernal.

Recent Columns:
August 20, 2008
When buddies go missing in action
I promised myself that I'd never use this space to call individuals out, but I never found it necessary until now.

August 13, 2008
The 'number' can ruin a good thing
I can think of just one relationship question that people have but don't want answered: "How many people have you slept with?"

August 6, 2008
Food can put extra spice in your sex
The idea of sex and food has never really been my thing.

July 23, 2008
Make a good first impression, then let loose
My man Chris Rock said it best: When you first start courting someone, you aren't dating their true self, you're dating their "representative."

July 23, 2008
Making sacrifices for love
A couple weeks ago, I took the lady I'm seeing to the musical "Wicked" as a birthday gift.

July 16, 2008
Friends or lovers: Who gets your loyalty?
At some point in our lives, we've all been asked by friends to closely guard a secret or two.

June 25, 2008
Weddings shouldn't cause headaches
The first time I was in a wedding, my father married my stepmother in 1990. I was an extremely cranky 9-year-old hell-bent on being as ornery as possible during the ceremony.

June 18, 2008
The tangled Web of online dating
My entry into the world of online dating started with no real expectations.

June 11, 2008
Big boys do cry—but not too much
I'm from the school of "baking cakes."

June 4, 2008
Forbidden fruit: Is it worth the chase?
When I think back on the most embarrassing and cringe-worthy spots of my dating history, I find a common thread: I was chasing after someone who didn't want me.